Just state your position, even if it is a repeat. Houses, cars, whatever, it doesn't matter if she changes her mind. Then it just becomes a moot point. Leases can be broken.
The point is that you DO NOT wear your heart on your sleeve. NOTHING, and I mean NOTHING is written in stone.
If she hurts your feelings, get over it. Don't be mean, but don't walk on eggshells. Be kind, but hardcore in your position regarding the marriage.
DO rehash the problem. I don't know why you would think that a single conversation would have forever addressed the issue. Women don't work that way. Trust me. Rehash it as often as your wife wants to.
When she talks about the issues, LISTEN TO HER. Then give her an honest answer and your plan to address the issue. You do have a plan, don't you?
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
