Hey, cj, are you sure your H and mine aren't related? I guess whatever he plans, even if it's the last minute, act as if it is a great idea, because I don't think most men think far enough ahead to do reservations. I think when they are trying to impress someone, they will do every thing they can to plan things to the last detail, like when you were first dating, or probably for the ones unfortunate enough to have a straying H, when they meet ow. So, I just wonder if because your H is feeling a bit happier with you the last few days, maybe he will make more of an effort.
And it's the worst when they sulk the whole time, and my H doesn't get over stuff like that very easily, he lets it build up inside for years. And he told me recently that he has never forgiven anyone anything other than something minor that they have done to him. I hope that wasn't true. Cause that will just eat him up, and I think it can eventually cause illness.
Oh, and DIY is do it yourself. I have had to learn to do stuff myself, even though sometimes I am not the best at it, but hey, I try! I am about to learn how to do siding repair. Yuck!!
