Sol - I am so sorry that this information was sent to you. What is that scumbag doing sending you an e-mail with details of their R??? Was this out of the blue or what? Seems kinda' strange to me. What's his motive?
All along you have probably had this nagging feeling that there was sex involved in their R. Does it upset you more that she lied about it or that it happened? Maybe her strange behavior makes more sense now. I have read that women can actually feel much more remorse about an A than men. Once it's over, women can get so depressed about it that they become suicidal.
So, so sorry Sol... Will be thinking about you all day.
