Sol, look I know that when the confirmation comes it just hurts and it sucks. It is the reality that we just don't want to hear, to know that our W had sex with another man.
However, come on Sol, you cannot tell me that you did not "know" that they had an affair dude. To much had occurred and you had your suspicions before now. All this is is a confirmation to what you already thought and you know it. Yet having that feeling you continued to want your marriage and your wife. Why is that different now, because you now have proof? Does it really change things that much for you?
Give yourself that golden 48 hour period to think this through sol before you do anything. Do not talk with her about it, do not make any decisions about it, do nothing. If you cannot work, talk to your boss, take the day off and go somewhere and just relax.
Sol do not overreact before you have a chance to think this through my friend. You will regret any actions that you take simply reacting to this news.
