My wife had been asking for a long time, "Why" I had LD. At our last meeting, I tried to answer why. I know that is one of the things she's wanting to discuss, but from out last phone call it didn't seem that she was changing her mind about anything I had said. So, I'm guessing that she going to shoot down those "why" answers. This will be a R talk.
NOPkins, since I had already explain the problems as I saw them in regards to LD, I don't think I can rehash them. However, I had not started takin the testostrone yet. And it does make a difference in how I feel. That could be something good I can tell her about and explain my good mood.
When she talks about the LD issues, I will listen to her, but should I respond? Try to explain further or refute what she says.
I believe that she had already rented the other house before we met last, so I think she already had her mind made up.
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I agree that the "business" style approach of not playing all the cards at first is a good one.
I'm not sure about the bottle of wine. She may view that as me try to "keep" her and may resist. I think we have wine in the house, so may be I should just open a bottle when I get there. I could also had a bottle in the car for backup.
No pleading, begging, crying ... just a new happy guy that feels great.
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We're meeting tonight, 7:30, at "our" house.
Wish I could get her in the sack, it would be a hell of a night for both of us! And we could both use it too.
