12_51 Please take note of the previous posters. I think they have very good feedback! Don't over do things, and don't play games. If anything, try to simplify and let her notice the changes in you. I think the post about looking at it as you would a perspective client meeting is good. If you come off as over eager, it will probably push her away, as it would a client. Be slow, be patient. DON'T look at this get together as the last one you and your W will ever have. That will produce too much anxiety. Look at it as the first step in building a new you. You do not have to show her all the changes yuo've made at once.
