Now. When you go into a business meeting with a client, do you lay out all your cards at once? Or do you do a bit of dialogue, get into their heads, and THEN see how your cards might work best for you in wooing the client?
This isn't going to be your one and only 'sales' meeting, kwis?
I think the new clothes sound good. Look as good as you can. A bottle of wine is a nice touch. The conversation about the mortgage payment is going to side-swipe her, so going beyond those few 180s might be too much for her to swallow at one time.
If you get a chance, go over to the 180 thread and read some of the stuff posted there. What you don't want to do is come off as adversarial. No R talk, no ILY's, no I miss you's... let her set the tone, and LISTEN to her.
It's going to be really tough on you, doing this. Keeping that smile, and empathetic 'tone' to your body language is going to be just about all you can stand.
Stay calm. You may even want to give one of the DB Coaches a call... seriously.
And... I sure as heck hope you have a computer at home, cuz I sure would hate to have to wait the entire weekend for an update.
