What I mean by this is that there seems to be a presumption that our wives are LD because of the relationship. There are dozens of reasons for being LD, and MOST of those reasons have NOTHING to do with relationship issues. I know that my wife has SEVERAL of those issues, besides just the relationship issues. My guess is that most LD women also have several of them. Even if I can overcome the relational issues, she still has major roadblocks to overcome (and I say she, because most of her issues I can have no input on).
