2in2myself I see what you're saying, but what I've been doing hasn't been working, so it's time to change things up some. I went back and re-read the chapter about 180's and the LRT -- it may be time to employ them now.
She sees me a hurt and needy. I need to not tell her, but show her I'm moving on with life.
I've got to be careful, but it could scare her a little. Also, during that time of the month she often gets weepy and needy herself. She might just do a 180 herself.
Just ideas, but tonight could be the night to try some out.
Also, I don't want to give her the idea that I've changed and now agree with her decision.