Thanks for the advice whatisis - I have simply been mostly quiet with my wife, not actively angry. She is getting the message and I don't have to "lose it".
onthebeach - could you tell me how to apply for a divorce here in Sweden? I am not necessarily going to do this immediately, but would like to be prepared. I am also concerned about the people in our little town here getting wind of it, and wonder if you can file any place you like.
Your insistence that I think of myself and the kids was very helpful - gracias -
Off for a run on another beautiful day, near sparkling water this time,
Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.