I'm thinking about doing to 180's / last resort moves for tomorrow night's meeting with my wife.

I need to think it thru carefully, so I'm going to sleep on it. But if anyone has any suggestions I'd like to hear them.

Please help me think these out. Pro's / Con's...

Corri's post really help me grow a little, not as much as I would like but bigger. Also may be it's the new testostrone med's the doc gave me. May be today's group meeting. Any how I feel a lot better.

We're suppose to meet at 7:30pm on Friday.

I've been too needy lately, just read some of my previous post.

I could:

-call an ask if we could change it to Saturday. I always keep appointments, and my W would not expect me to do this. Especially since I've been eager to meet with her. I could tell her I've met some really nice people in one of my support groups that have invited me out for drinks.

-ask her if we could have dinner some other time, cause I've got to go meet some of the new people I've met.

-I've thought about moving my office into my house, I could eagerly take some measurments to see if everything will fit.

-flash some old legal documents I've got on file. She'd never expect to see the attorney's letter head on some paper work. Of course I won't give it to her. Just have it in my file when I'm looking for other documents.

-tell her that the new testostrone med's are really making me feel great... lots more energy and just plain feel better. Don't make it sexual, but she'll get the idea. It is true I do feel better today. Not sure if it's the meds or not.

-tell her that I'm getting use to the idea. It could be a lot of fun not having to answer to anyone.

-tell her that business is really going good. New big client with lots of potential for multiple joint projects in the future. The client is actually going to sell my services to his clients. Kind of a team approach. Actually, the client's not in the bag yet but I should know tomorrow. I can always make it sound bigger and better than it is.

-tell her that we should sell the house ASAP and that she needs to help with the painting and getting things ready. Push her to help out. She thinks I want to stay there.

-push her to file. Tell her I'm ready to get on with life. -- Really not sure about this one, it could backfire badly.



Please let me know what ya'll think. Thanks...........