It's like this I think. By you pursuing her, what's it getting you? If you back right off and she comes to you, you've got the answer you've been looking for. If you back right off and she stays away, you've also got the answer you've been looking for.

If the only way you get anything from her is by you pursuing, it doesn't sound like your future with her is going to be any good does it?

I decided to back off 2 years ago. If she wants me, she knows where she can find me. Alternatively, I could have pursued and she could have continued treating me less that what I deserve.

Remember what I said to you before? You have all the power in this. It's on your terms and no one elses. You set the agenda and while you can remain hopeful, the onus is on the WAS. If they don't want to change, it really will never work out anyways.

God Bless

Suit

"It's better to have no spouse than have a bad spouse"