I heard tonight on tv someone say .. "when someone hurts you the instinct is to hurt back"
this is so true and those of us with H's on the ledge, can't make up their minds, can't decide and have just gotten totally lost. It is hard some days not to want to hurt back. but we don't and we will be rewarded in the end.
pws do you think that maybe the personality change in your H is related to the mlc? I have not read your threads I will catch up this week since i have so much time. But maybe my L was trying to tell me about this when he told me to get him to agree to the settlement when he was in the giving mode for when he starts to get angry he is going to start to fight for everything.
It's been 11 months wonder if he is going to file every day now, hate the feeling.
stay focused and take care of you for I found out the hard way stress is not good on the body. lots and lots of hugs to last the weekend H
m24 yrs h 50 me 47 s 21 s 17 left 5-30-06, and 12-4-06 still gone.............
