The other issues: the major one involves the kids and not appreciating what i do at home (since I gave up my career). HE comes home and also acts like his work day is done..yet the kids are young and we need to be involved in their school work and reading. They are what you put into them. If there are reading problems...well we need to work daily with them. We can't just blame others or the child themselves. School work takes a big chunk of the night.
The other issue is his attitude towards the kids...he tends to act lazy. He doesn't put into them what needs to be put into them, He complains that our son needs to be more aggressive and less shy in bball....well then take him and work with him. Build his confidence. Don't just complain. It makes me so sick inside...because I am doing all i can...but I need help and am tired of his empty promises to work with the kids and yet it never happens. He always says after a game..."I am going to go and work with him..."yet he never does. Maybe once in a blue moon.
I did enjoy kissing...when we were young I guess.
Right now I appreciate that he is home at dinner time....doesn't go out and sit at bars...doesn't spend his nights in sports leagues....and is home with us rather than at his office to all hours of the night.
I think he is aware of my frustration...but we haven't communicated one on one except in frustrated moments. We need to sit down and go over our laundry lists so to speak.
I don't know if he has any issues except that he wished I would initiate sex...and quit saying no. ***I would be into sex since I have high desire...if these issues didn't kill my mood and make me resent him.
