I am so happy I found this thread !
my H's addiction is the OW...
then came the new phone and visiting relatives, but no new clothes until a yr after OW came into picture.

but the haircuts... obsession he never had before..really he would go for 10 wks and now monthly and at one point 5 months ago it was every 2 wks. and ugly... balding men don't alway look better with short hair like he thought !!!
but gee... was it OW's suggestion and she loved it??? don't think so for he only did it that once

he has one pr of really ugly shoes he bought or she bought?
he is working out since last fall. Had not worked out on a reg basis in yrs.

so many similarities yet so many differences between these men.

m24 yrs
h 50
me 47
s 21
s 17
left 5-30-06, and 12-4-06
still gone.............