The whole legal thing gets ugly, confusing, and covered in spew.
You are upset cuz Huz is angry and you would like to save the M if possible. Pretend for a minute that your L doesn't know this, or is just stupidly convinced you shouldn't and it won't work anyhoo.
If you weren't interested in saving nuttin but your own best interests and the L found out your H totally mooned the courts here, he likely did what he thought best, and maybe required by law.
Doesn't mean it doesn't suk, or that the L isn't an egotistic pile. But ... maybe he isn't all that ... and this whole thing just sux cuz any and all D business just totally does.
Think about getting ready for the chance to point out to H that you didn't know anything about it and no one will ever find your signature on any of THAT [censored] paperwork!!! The fact is that you trusted him to try simply try and look out for your best interests and signed a contract that said he would do that. You aren't the L and don't know what the h*ll is happening.
If your H hadn't totally violated the court orders and you could take back what the L has done, you would. Unfortunately since your H did, and you can't, this sux for H. Tell him to ask his L how you can possible help diffuse this and you will.
Mention to H that it is not his fault if his L did not make the court orders clear, and building the house was a simple no-no, but now it needs to be addressed and resolved. Ask how you can help do that without tearing down the house, or the court building.
Put on your best groveling face, but at the same time kiddo, just realize that once again ... he totally did this to himself and wants to make you the villain. Don't believe it. Your L was likely even insulted at the perceived arrogance of your H's disregard for court orders and standing proceedings. He felt if he didn't respond with overwhelming firepower there would be no more control in this at all.
Be sure your L understands how you feel about your H regardless of statistics, and how you feel about surprises. Make sure he knows if any more surprises happen, you may have to question his representation of you, and his ethics ... legally.
