What do YOU want to do? Never mind what SHE wants. As for the finances, if you two aren't together she is going to have to pay her fair share to survive isn't she? Then let her face the music now!!
You might want to be careful about shaving off the beard because if you have had it for a long time (I know because my H had one) and you shave it off, your skin will be iritated for a few days and might become all red and blotchy - not a pretty sight.
In the alternative, you might want to buy a new outfit, trim the beard so it looks VERY groomed (oh, women love that - or at least I do - lol) and perhaps a very mild (but new) aftershave - might get her wondering where you might be going after your meeting with her. If she says anything, perhaps you can say you're just meeting up with some friends later (keep her curiousity up)
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
