As well as treating myself to the erotic dancing classes I have also been wearing very expensive lingerie since my H left. It makes such a difference to how I feel about myself. Now I feel I'm 'worth' expensive lingerie irrespective of the fact that no-one besides me will see it. Maybe you could give her a gift voucher to go choose her own lingerie if you think you buying her some would freak her out.


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15