12_51 In some ways, your W acts like mine. My W does not like to look at herself, and cannot take any constructive criticism. I've always been a straight shooter, so I had to learn a different way to communicate with her. I am so glad to hear you say that you are not 100% responsible for the M problems. I know the feelings of anger and resentment that you can have, but try ( as another poster said ) to use that energy positively. Remember, you may have made mistakes in the M, but we all have including your W. you are doing everything you can to save the M, so remember to put some responsibility on your W for not owning up to her issues, and also for her giving you conflicting messages. Be firm, calm, and keep a straight course. If you (and I)can act, rather than re-act to what our W's throw at us, they will see changes! Keep going forward, and I will keep you and all the others in my prayers. Don't give up!
