RGM,

Not to "steal" your thread, but Just_Me, feel free to catch my stitch over under MLC. (Ups & downs of Limbo Land, et.al)

Just_Me - you are right about the letting go, but @ the same time, my WAH-MLCer has not actually been communicating during the time that we seem to be "trying." He is still in the throughs of MLC.

The space/freedom he is asking for is literally to neglect all of his responsibilities & just play w/his friends. He has been working on becoming a better parent, while I have been working on myself. However, he is still struggling w/the parental responsibilities & limits that keep one from all the freedom that he wants.

Naturall, like all LBSs, we are the ones to blame.

Sorry again RGM....


MariS

"Going for the Gold & not the Booby prize"

Become the change you want to see.....

Me - 37
WAH - 35
child - 2yrs
Separated - August '06
Married - 10yrs, Together 18
Not feeling WAH's internal struggle - Feb '08