Not to "steal" your thread, but Just_Me, feel free to catch my stitch over under MLC. (Ups & downs of Limbo Land, et.al)
Just_Me - you are right about the letting go, but @ the same time, my WAH-MLCer has not actually been communicating during the time that we seem to be "trying." He is still in the throughs of MLC.
The space/freedom he is asking for is literally to neglect all of his responsibilities & just play w/his friends. He has been working on becoming a better parent, while I have been working on myself. However, he is still struggling w/the parental responsibilities & limits that keep one from all the freedom that he wants.
Naturall, like all LBSs, we are the ones to blame.
Sorry again RGM....
MariS
"Going for the Gold & not the Booby prize"
Become the change you want to see.....
Me - 37 WAH - 35 child - 2yrs Separated - August '06 Married - 10yrs, Together 18 Not feeling WAH's internal struggle - Feb '08