my point would be that whether you are alpha male or not, being confident and sure of yourself whatever your personality is the way to attract HEALTHY attention and create a HEALTHY relationship.
I think that is good advice. I've been mulling over the whole Alpha concept. For myself personally, yes, I can find that very sexually attractive but I have never had a close emotional bond with "that type." The R with my H and all my other close R with men have been with someone who I consider "sensitive" and "emotional." In this sense, birds of a feather flock together, not opposites attract. I think it is much harder for a woman to truly love a man that is Alpha. Maybe I am wrong. That just seems to be the case for many women I have seen. My friend who is getting separated is M to what I consider a pretty Alpha guy and he is no longer attractive to her because as she says "I want someone I can be cute with, that I can share stuff with, that is just willing to be more emotional." I think pushing all the Alpha behaviors on this board might actually backfire in the long run. Yes, it is great for short term sexual attraction, but not the basis for a long-term M. Of course the irony being the more sensitive man is also not the best sexual match for the HD woman. I'm living it. Again, life ain't fair. LFL
