He says a man should pursue his purpose for the sake of the purpose. If a woman is attracted to that purpose, then all is well. If she is not, then she is the wrong woman, go find another.
Some women think they like the "purpose" when they marry, but tire of that purpose after many years of M. BTDT.
Go find another (woman) conflicts with some people’s values. Go find another doesn't deal with the broken pieces of a couple's lives that remain after one finds another and maybe the other doesn't find anything but loss.
I liked some things in both books "Wild at Heart" “TWOASM” but I didn't see either book as a complete model to follow.
I heard find your own goals, don’t depend on a woman for self-worth. I think the book overstated that concept. I think find your own goals and don’t get all/most of your validation from a woman, but get some from work/personal goals an remember you have a W, don’t exclude her needs.
