Hapinees, is it even possible part II

[MJontheMend]

I am going to throw in a contrary note here. IMO, what CeMar wants is a woman who will appreciate him on the level of "male candy". That is probably what I find likable or at least amusing about him because I am a woman who can appreciate men on the level of "candy". CeMar has never posted a picture of himself but he claims to be attractive and muscular. Therefore, in the short run, he should have no problem attracting women on that level. So what is his problem in the long run? Liz Phair is a HD female songwriter who I really love. This song "Flower" is from her album "Exile in Guyville" which she wrote as a female response to "Exile on Main Street" by the Rolling Stones. It's all about the POV of a HDW who is regarding a guy as "male candy".

Everytime I see your face I get all wet between my legs
Everytime you pass me by, I heave a sigh of pain

(background lyrics sung throughout)

Everytime I see your face I think of things unpure, unchaste
I want to f*ck you like a dog
I'll take you home and make you like it
Everything you ever wanted
Everything you ever thought of
Is everything I'll do to you
I'll f*ck you and your minions, too
Your face reminds me of a flower
Kind of like you're underwater
Hair's too long and in your eyes
Your lips a perfect "suck me" size
You act like you're fourteen years old
Everything you say is so obnoxious, funny, true and mean
I want to be your blowjob queen
You're probably shy and introspective
That's not part of my objective
I just want your fresh, young jimmy
Jamming, slamming, ramming in me
Everytime I see your face I think of things unpure, unchaste
I want to f*ck you like a dog
I'll take you home and make you like it
Everything you ever wanted
Everything you ever thought of
Is everything I'll do to you
I'll f*ck you till your d*ck is blue

As you can see, she doesn't really describe a lot of male behavior that could typically be described as Alpha or "good". The personality traits she list are that the guy:

1) Acts like he is 14 years old. (I'm thinking of Iggy Pop even though he's 60)
2) Is obnoxious, even mean.
3) Is funny.
4) Speaks the truth, probably indicative of intelligence also.
5) Is shy. (This is a very common HDW rationalization for coming on to a guy instead of waiting for him to come on to her.)
6) Is introspective.


I think what I'm trying to convey here is that acting "Alpha" might get a woman to let you f*ck her or even want you to f*ck her but acting "Alpha" won't get a woman to want to f*ck you or do you which is what CeMar wants.