you are buying into his BS, he is making you the bad guy so he can have a licence to mess around w/ow. Dont' believe it!! why are you second guessing yourself or think you are the one who's doing wrong? he is messing w/your mind, don't let him.
Guess he wasn't ready to let go of his crutch aka ow just yet. He is putting you down because you are letting him. It is time you realize that this selfish man wants his cake and eat it too. I've said it to you before Cissy, you need to love yourself enough to stop being a doormat. I know you want your H back, but right now he is no shape to be the loving and respectful H you deserve.
Read "love is tough" by J Dobson, you'll know what I mean. You dont' deserve this treatment, things have not gotten better since you started piecing.
You need to decide if you want to live in fear and unease for months on end or if you want to have peace and let his madness run its course on his own, alone, away from your home.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
