so I say nothing? it is strange to be in the same household with this lying person and do and say nothing in response; remember she respects strength and would certainly respond in a similar situation...
She knows I caught her - a few times now in fact - on top of which, many years ago, a few weeks before we married, I caught her after a night with another man. She apologized for that and we married (but maybe shouldn't have). She calls herself "wayward"... (reminds me of a book I'd like to read called "red princess", about a similar cheating woman, a russian princess)
I would like to show my anger somehow... at least be aloof when she comes home from my daughter's violin lesson...
What do I do if shse proposes to spend a few days 'alone'?
Maybe it does make sense for just the kids and I to go to Boston, withour her, if I am completely detached (which I choose to read as don't give a d--n anymore)?
Sorry about the lapse in describing here - just spent an hour biking, through deep green woods and a nature reserve, out to a summer house area, mostly on dirt roads, on the same water we live on. It is a beautiful day, maybe 65-70, boats are slowly coming out on the lake here, an early summer -
Monday night is Walpurgis, a pretty cool celebration here - see
