LO,Penny,and Root, Thanks for the input. Penny, I'm not sure what is going on with OW, see she still works for him and I don't know if there is anything beyond work. I just have to be strong.
H came over for dinner last night and did a few things to the pool. He left saying he would come back later. He called later and said he was just going to stay at the office and go to sleep. He then gently said, okay? I said okay I'll talk to you later. I wanted to try to talk him into coming over, but I knew it was better not to be pushy. I can tell he is still very confused about what he wants to do. I will just continue praying. I continue to act upbeat and talk to him like we would if we weren't going through this. He gets a little closer then he pulls back.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon