Luke, Sometimes I have heard my W talking on the phone in the bathroom to OP. Usually, rather than getting mad, I recognize what a sad and pathetic existence it must be to have to sneak around like this. I actually feel good that I don't have that baggage, that's her trip! How sad it is to watch someone make deceit and shame such a big part of her life. I'm glad I'm not her, strange as that might sound!