it is tempting to just say F*ck it, sit on the couch eating bon-bons all day and not worry about having a great SL ever again. I think more women do that than we realize. Hmpf. I don't want that and I'm determined to fight it. One way or another.
Of course you don't want that-I definitely don't see you as the type to let it all go, you have too much energy for that. The boredom of eating bon-bons all day would kill you The women who've stopped paying attention to their own neeeds and let themselves go have begun the path of their dysfunction, IMO. They give their H's plenty of "excuses" to cheat, look at porn, put sex on the back burner, and a whole host of other BS. Then those women have to start at the bottom, working on themselves and fixing their dysfunction. You're miles ahead of that game and I don't see you going backward.
"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."
