I think I will go back to telling everyday to move out and make it my only response to any conversation
I'm not sure about this plan. It certainly fulfills the criteria of hard to get, but you should be very fun, happy, silly, and maybe even a little flirtatious, but just leave him on the outskirts of your life. Basically, a tease. Don't let him hug you, kiss you, etc, but don't be cold. The thought is, tempting, desirable, but unobtainable. And yes, you can drop the, "I want you to move out bomb" whenever he starts getting the impression that you want a guy that wants to have a wife and girlfriend both.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
