Need another opinion, is my W OM, friend or more?

[andyv]

ROOT,

I feel the same way. I have been moving on for the last week and a bit, and have noticed a change in W.

I played Golf yesterday with some mates from work, then went for a few beers afterwards. I was gone all day (catch up time for W and DD). Then when I got back at around 9pm, W was still up and made coffee for us both.

She talked about her trip to Melbourne on Friday, and a few other things whilst we watched some TV for an hour, nice. Then she went to bed.

Today, I decided to work late and catch a movie with my sister (W thought I had a after work function to go to), I wanted to give her some space to pack for her trip tomorrow.

She called me twice whilst I was out to ask me trivial questions that could be answered tomorrow. Plus she called me at work earlier and we spoke for 20 minutes about all sorts of stuff (nothing to do with R talk).

I just got home (10pm) and she was already in bed. So I won't see her for three days till she gets home.

I am not going to call her for the next three days as the onus should be on her to ring because of DD.

She wanted her space and separation, so do you think this is a good thing to do?