(((lael))). I'm sorry. I don't know what this feels like but I cannot imagine that it is good. My heart goes out to you.
Her logic is full of holes, and she is obviously trying to maniuplate your H. Now, I am ever practical when pushed... and my S14 was adopted at birth. So I'm going to give you a thought that you may want to share with H. Regardless of who the father is, there are people lining up to adopt healthy infants in this country. This whole threat of abortion is just nonsense when she has this third option. And putting the child up for adoption deals with her argument about the child needing two parents.(You don't need to tell her you got the idea from someone whose MLC H ultimately walked out!)
In the meantime, pat yourself on the back for your very caring and calm response to all this.
