My H sent her a text this morning asking her if he could come visit her in the hospital, and talk to the doctors, but she said she would have him thrown out if he did, always a lady, she told him to F off, and stay out of her life.
I LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE it, she is digging her own whore grave.
calm cool and collecte you class lady
smoooches
Last edited by Lissett; 04/25/0711:44 PM.
“Pray as though everything depended on God. Work as though everything depended on you.”
(((lael))). I'm sorry. I don't know what this feels like but I cannot imagine that it is good. My heart goes out to you.
Her logic is full of holes, and she is obviously trying to maniuplate your H. Now, I am ever practical when pushed... and my S14 was adopted at birth. So I'm going to give you a thought that you may want to share with H. Regardless of who the father is, there are people lining up to adopt healthy infants in this country. This whole threat of abortion is just nonsense when she has this third option. And putting the child up for adoption deals with her argument about the child needing two parents.(You don't need to tell her you got the idea from someone whose MLC H ultimately walked out!)
In the meantime, pat yourself on the back for your very caring and calm response to all this.
my S14 was adopted at birth. So I'm going to give you a thought that you may want to share with H. Regardless of who the father is, there are people lining up to adopt healthy infants in this country.
AMEN!
“Pray as though everything depended on God. Work as though everything depended on you.”
I agree with you completely AH, and so does my H. He told her that adoption was a noble thing to do, but she doesn't want that. I have a very good friend who gave a baby up for adoption, and it was the best thing she ever did for herself, the baby, and her other son. She has never regretted giving that child a home with two people who really wanted a child.
The OW's logic is very messed up. She lives in a small town, and already has a two year old with a man who doesn't want anything to do with her. She doesn't want to deal with people knowing she is pregnant, and then giving the baby up. That is also the reason she doesn't want a second child without a father, because she thinks she will be talked about, and that no one will ever want her. I guess she didn't think about how people would feel about her dating a married man. That was no big deal.
At 28, you would think she would be beyond thinking so selfishly. But I guess she obviously has some issues of her own to begin with. Sometimes I look at her, and worry about my daughter turning out like that. She came from a broken home, where her parents told her they were getting a divorce, and a week later her mom's boyfriend moved in. She actually told my H that she turned out OK, so our kids would too. I don't think she turned out all right.
The only thing that gives me comfort, is that I will raise my daughter with more self respect than she obviously has. I don't think a child necessarily needs two parents to be raised properly, but they at least need one that can do the job right. Obviously she didn't have that growing up.
Look at all the wonderful parents on this board, those are the parents who will give their kids what they need to become healthy adults. Those are the kids who will turn out all right.
