Well, try and have a little fun (but not too much, of course... no need for you both to enter MLC... someone needs to stay sane!).

I can understand you being too honest. I tend to overdo the honesty thing as well and looking back it's something I did too much of as well. I now realize if I had been a litte more mysterious it might have moved my husband and I back into reconciliation a little sooner. On the other-hand, I didn't want to take a chance of pushing him away. It was a real balancing act.

But one thing I do wonder, if he hadn't been so certain, or secure in me being there for him, perhaps he wouldn't have strayed so far... it wasn't until I did finally move happily onward with my life that he started to question the decisions he was making...

So... something to consider...

There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.