If you want evidence that your wife's feelings can one day change, I am proof because there can't BE a woman more gone from a marriage mentally and emotionally than I was. The only reason I didn't file back then was because I couldn't afford to. But I shredded us in every other area that existed, I assure you.
What I would implore you to do is consider that sometimes the most effective way to wage a war is from a seated (and silent) position.
