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Could it be possible that she see's you as the third type of friend in my example? The friend you hang out with, help mutually, snuggle to and have orgasms with....leaving the door open for more of an R?


I agree this could be possible....but wouldn't this type of R mess with my mind too much? I mean if she really has no intention of ever getting back with me this can prolong my healing.


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She's actually doing you a favor. Diving into a full blown R with her now is like volunteering for a suicide mission.


I agree, I could never be in a R with someone who's emotions waver all over the place.