You are right everything I have read is full blown MLC. When he didn't answer on Sunday when he knew we were coming thru really made me think how disrespectful he has become he had tried to call me earlier. I'm sure it was her day. I had made up my mind becasue I was so disappointed that he hadn't told me he had moved to Brothers other place with his trailer that I had almost thrown in the towel. He then showed up at my house at 6:00 in the morning he came to do some work which he barely helps me--- surprise surprise. He stayed the night but slept most of the night in the chair because he was sick. He apologized for being sick and not very good company. He did shipped what we needed to ship so I didn't have to take time off. He was really bummed at our oldest son for not doing the jobs my H told him to do. He diud call today and tell me he was sorry that he shouldn't take being mad at oldest S out on me except I should get a list and make oldest S do more when he comes home. He was right the jobs were easy and it would have made things easlier for me. but oldest S came back on Wednesday and did 3 of them when he came to get some things.
Today he is kinda stand offish. It is hard to to tell. I can tell when I try and ask questions to make conversation. That I'm trying to hard so to communicate. I am sure now of the MLC because your house is never was right, I had not taken care of my self and put on 35 lbs whicch he was right there because I was so depressed at him so you let your self go. I have now lost 25 lbs and even he has complimented on how well I look.
It is funny that he has called at least 4 times tonite but not super friendly but just visiting. I just can't figure it out.
Does anyone have any advice? What a roller coaster ride? soemtimes I think is it worth it. I am jhandling it alot better that I used to. I have detached but sometimes it is tough when you do so much talking over business.
Even his family is disgusted with him. They do not like the OW at all. They know what she is....but someday it will all come back to her and him too. We do have alot of issues to get thru. 25 years is a long time to live with someone you basically know everything but still miss alot of things. Hind site always comes to late.
