I'm not a rude person. I'm angry today, but that will pass.
She and I did talk. I called and left a message and then she called back after a few hours.
I asked her why she wanted to put off our talk. She said that she was "very tired." She original called me at 10 this morning to cancel, so I really don't buy the "tired" bit. I think she's having a hard time with this, but not probably not 2nd thoughts.
Anyway, she wanted to do it tomorrow night and I said that wasn't good for me. (I really have nothing going on.) I asked about doing it on Friday. She said that would be ok and that she would order a pizza.
I really don't think it's going to be a fun evening so don't read anything into it. Even if we're together having pizza like old times, she's wanting to discuss finances and what she's taking.
I'm still not completely clear on how to deal with finances. Could someone help me with this? We have a mortgage payment due monthly, credit card bills, utilities, etc. What should she pay during this separation? I'm not wanting to be unfair, but this really isn't my idea. I've been told by our C that she should pay half the mortgage. But how about the other items?
If we divorce, the property & debt is going to be divided equally, so shouldn't she have to make payments on her half?
I'm not trying to make this unreasonably hard for her, but I should have to do it all. Also, I don't want to make it easy on her -- I don't want to aid her in this separation/divorce.
