I can't believe how much my H has opened up to me during his crisis, and relied on me to help him. He has been sending me several e-mails a day, several texts, and at least one phone call. I know it is not my problem, and I am not trying to solve it for him, but I am trying to be there for him as a friend. If the OW is pregnant, I'm not sure what I will do, but for now, I will be his friend.
The latest drama with the OW, is that she was hospitalized on Monday. She supposedly had some kind of infection. She is being released today. I'm not sure what kind of an infection kept her in the hospital for three days. She was admitted. My H knows that much because he called and checked, but whether or not she was there that long, is her story. That's three more days with no proof.
My H sent her a text this morning asking her if he could come visit her in the hospital, and talk to the doctors, but she said she would have him thrown out if he did, always a lady, she told him to F off, and stay out of her life.
This afternoon, she sent him a text saying that she was being released today, and would send him paperwork tomorrow proving pregnancy. But that he would have to wait until the baby was born for a paternity test since his "female expert on her cycles," would be demanding that BS from her next. My H has poked holes in her story with some information I have provided him with. Apparently it hasn't made her too happy. I am guessing she has a pretty good idea it's me.
As far as my H goes, he seems to be getting really fed up with her run around. I am still a little worried that she might actually be pregnant, but he seems more confidant by the day. He is tired of asking for proof, and getting nothing. For a woman who wants him to commit to her, and raise the baby with her, she is going about it the wrong way. Maybe it's the year of DBing, but going into hysterics doesn't get you very far in a relationship. All she would have had to do, is pee on a stick and my H would have committed to her on the spot whether he wanted to or not. She blew it.
So the drama continues. At least it's making me see how much better off I am without him.
