Life goes on, and it ain't about Job

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Thanks all, I am sorry that I missed the hijack. No problem btw. What a great discussion. I am not sure I have forgiven my wife yet, I think some times that I am still in damage controll mode and will worry about the rest of it after it is all said and done. I have forgiven to some extent, but as was addressed, it is an ongoing thing. As new things happen, I find myself working it over and for the most part trying to find some forgiveness.

Some things are harder then others, I have not forgiven the affair(s), but with time and rebuilt trust feel like I most likely could. That is the thing that still stings to even think about, her choosing to be intimate with someone else, all the while acting like a wife and mother.

Most of the rest of it rolls off, and I do struggle from time to time with self-rightiousness, but not directly with my wife.

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POS is piece of sh!t, as in POS OM.

I have to finish getting dinner ready, I will check in tonight.