CL, I'm seeing some real positives here. I liked your response to you IC. I can see where they would suggest that, but it is a very personal decision that only you can make.
Maybe if your W gets a job that is more fulfilling she will be happier with her ownself, and realize that it's not you making her unhappy.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
