Thank you so much for taking your time out to help me. I am not totally "naive", but I was a late bloomer. I did not start having sex until I was twenty-two years old and as my H very well knows he was and is the first who was able to get me to ever "O" at the age of 28.I really wanted to save myself for marriage. I will be 38 this year in November. I did not date very much before hooking up w/ H.
H will be 37 in June, but he is very imature in some ways especially when he gets down to our kids level or his newphew who when playing video games w/ he MUST always win or he will have a temper tantrum just like his nephew would. The two are always going at it like children. I think I 've stated before that about eleven years ago he was diagnosed w/ "imature personality disorder" and this was when as a punishment for something he did his cheif in the Navy had his salary suspended and therefore he was so depressed they put him in the pyche ward for a weekend at the base. H is the typical latin macho man.
I think I will go back to telling everyday to move out and make it my only response to any conversation.
