She's moving out and says that it's permanent

[fearless]

"Looks like i picked the wrong week to quit sniffing glue."

"Surely you can't be serious"

There's nothing wrong at all with being angry.

Here are some thoughts for you:

Did you get your prescription filled?

What GAL activities do you have?

What 180 ideas do you have?

Also as far as finances, to me it depends upon your financial circumstances and your own personal limit of what you can live with. Of course you do not want to be stupid and make any huge risk, at the same time why haggle over a few hundred or thousand if you can afford to lose it. Just my two cents. For me I was able and willing to lose thousands while I was trying to make my marriage work. In the end XH left anyway but I have no regrets about any money lost during that time because I made a clear decision at the time. Others may not have the means or desire to take that risk. There is not a right or wrong limit; it just needs to be a decision you have made and can live with. Having these boundaries thought out ahead of time will help you feel confident and know how to react.