Thanks for stopping by, hopefully what I learn in this struggle will help others along the way. This weekend I got to sit with a friend and talk about the power of conscience and guilt. He pointed out that perhaps the main struggle right now might be that W is trying to balance what the HG/guilt is telling her and what society is trying to draw her down with. All though more "light" can be seen in her demeanor, it is a day to day struggle. She is fighting to decide what is better F/M or path of least resistance.

Luckily, I think there are those who have been down this messy road before, who are taking her under their wing and giving her the reality of what is wrong with the path of least resistance. Hopefully they will be able to get their point across. How about giving me a link to your latest thread so I can read up? As you can see I've been in this for awhile, fortunately I have this site this time through. Long story, maybe another time.