YoYo,
It's great that your R has gotten back to this point! Tyler over in the Piecing forum, shared a great metaphor of how our WAS's have built a wall between us and them. The goal of the LBS is to not chase them back behind the wall. He says that the WAS is surveying the situation to see if the LBS has made changes, and things are going to be different.

I find this to be a helpful way of looking at the dynamics bwtween the LBS and the WAS in the early stage where the WAS is contemplating reconciliation. It also helps to clarify what our role is at this time.

The fact that he's touching you during sleep is encouraging!

CL

CL 53 W 54
M 20 yrs.
03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL
10-14' Piecing

"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."

----Tao Te Ching