ATGO is correct. Why would he tell you especially if he knows you are not 100% sure. You would react negatively and he does not want that. But either way it does not matter. If he is having an affair it is the outcome of other issues in your R that need to be corrected.
Detatching is the hardest thing you will ever do but once you can accomplish that you will be a lot happier with yourself and the outcomes that will happen in your life.
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."