Not sure why you did what you did. I understand the anger, but I don't see why you bothered with the confrontation.
Let me show why.
Justdontknow: Why did you send this text. You lied to me! You are cheating on me!
Wife: Who cares. I told you I wanted a divorce anyway. So what does it matter if I'm seeing other men since I'm not interested in being married to you. You don't seem to get it that I WANT OUT OF THIS MARRIAGE!
Put your thoughts through a filter that always says, "should I mention this to her? Is this about my needs or hers? Would this matter if we were already divorced?" If it is about your needs and your feelings then it doesn't make a difference because she is looking out for #1 (and that isn't you)
By the way, what does a 51 y.o woman think is out there for her? Men are just scrambling to be with her?
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
