if he wasn't having an A, why'd he move in with her? I call BS but hold out for other advice
First of all I have to say the standard it does not matter if he does or not. That is a minor problem here right now.
Do not snoop to find out and wuit asking him about it because all it is going to do is hurt you when you find out anyway. Keep it as an assumption.....
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I just wish I knew if there was double meanings in what he says, and what they mean.
Why? Who really cares? The way you should be looking at this is not believeing a single word that comes out of his mouth and only believeing half of what he does...Actions speak louder than words sister....
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I am going insane trying to figure everything out!!!!!!
Well no crap. So stop trying to figure everything out and live one day at a time for yourself. Dwelling on what he is saying or doing is not healthy for you anyway whats so ever....
You need to detatch. I know, I know. That is what everone says. Well it is the truth. YOU need to get to the point where everything he says or does does not affect your mood in any way whats so ever. I also mean the positive stuff as well.
Hope this helps a little bit. UA asked us to swing by and share a few words with ya....
Later, Ben
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
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