I have been talking to my H mother alot here recently and she agrees with me that there is something weird going on. He WILL NOT admit to having a affair, and she swears they are "just friends". He has never brought up divorce it is always me asking him if he wants one. He says no. Things he has said that are confusing are as follows.... Sit back and be nice I need space and time it may take a month or it may take a year This is only a stepping stone It wouldn't be fair if I moved back in In a year after you have saved money move out of state (he won't let me take our boys out of state so this won't happen without him and he knows it)
I just wish I knew if there was double meanings in what he says, and what they mean. I am going insane reading about every book I can find about this and no one has a scenario like mine. Anyone have any advice or have any idea what he might be trying to say? Please anything will do, I am going insane trying to figure everything out!!!!!!
