12_51 I think the feedback from "fearless" is excellant! We have to remember to watch our needs, and not act off the cuff. As my W said in MC, "You want everything fixed right away. Things take time. I need time." So I pulled back. I am NOT giving up, but I'm not calling nearly as much, I stopped with all the ILY's, and instead focus on neutral issues when not in MC. In short, I'm giving her space. This is a particularly rough time, as my W is going away to a horse show (horses are her business), and won't be back until Sun. I'm giving her room to breath. It's hard, but to be needy and whiney now won't do any good.
