Yet all the signs are there that for some reason he soesn't want to live w/ her or have something more serious w/ her.
I missed the manual on "Signs of not wanting her".....not being rude to you but a guy can make whatever "signs" he wants when the time is right....especially if it looks like he is not getting his way or things are not going the way he wants.
You are right to tell him to move in with the Jerry Springer chick.....because if that is not what he wanted then why is he still getting it?